Category: About Mediation
SAFE Parenting Plans: Turning Parenting Agreements into Protective Structures
August 17, 2026Abstract Parenting plans are typically drafted as legal instruments that allocate time and decision-making between adults, yet from a child's...
By Patricia Wright
Help Your Clients Use AI Wisely Before Mediation Sessions
August 17, 2026Has a client ever come to one of your mediations armed with an AI analysis showing that they had a...
By John Lande
Optimizing Mediation – Table of Contents
August 17, 2026Participant Empowerment, AI andProblem-Solving Optimization in Mediation by Jim Melamed Co-Founder and 25-year CEO at Mediate.com INTRODUCTION About this “Book"...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: The Goals of Your Mediation
August 17, 2026Table of Contents Next The Goals for Your Mediation Fairness and Reasonableness? Empowerment and Recognition? Our plans often miscarry because...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Less is More & Normative Stories
August 16, 2026Table of Contents Next Less is More & Normative Stories Just as an effective mediator continually seeks to take the...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Baby Steps and Strategic Mediation
August 15, 2026Table of Contents Next Baby Steps and Strategic Mediation Participants do not need to win, they are just unwilling to...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Perception and Parts
August 14, 2026Table of Contents Next WORKING WITH PARTICIPANTS IN MEDIATION Perception and Parts Seeking to become an effective mediator is both...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Most Capable Solutions
August 13, 2026Table of Contents Next Most Capable Solutions Success doesn't come to you...you go to it. Marva Collins If at first...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Working with Participants’ Resource States
August 12, 2026Table of Contents Next Working with Participants’ Resource States Question: How do mediation participants come to us? At their best?...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: “Maximizing Mediation” as a Model
August 12, 2026Table of Contents Next Maximizing Mediation as a Model There is no single “right way” to mediate. Mediation practices vary...
By Jim Melamed
Misconceptions About Divorce & Mediation – Separating Myths from Facts
August 11, 2026Myths and misinformation often shape people’s understanding of divorce law and their options for reaching a settlement through mediation or...
By Dr. Lynne C. Halem
Scarcity as Narrative: The Hidden Driver of Congregational Conflict
August 11, 2026Congregations rarely divide because they run out of money. They divide because they run out of shared imagination. Scarcity becomes...
By John Potter, Bart Patton
Optimizing Mediation: Building Rapport
August 11, 2026Table of Contents Next Building Rapport in Mediation Building Rapport Matching, Pacing, and Leading If asked to name the three...
By Jim Melamed
Wouldn’t You Like to Read a Plausible Story About Mediation?
August 10, 2026Are you bummed out that most portrayals of mediation in popular culture are freakish caricatures? Me too. Too often, mediators...
By John Lande
Mediate.com Interview with Tony Piazza: “Lessons from 5,000 Mediations: Converting Dialectic Into Dialogue” (video)
August 8, 2026This Mediate.com interview of Tony Piazza was recorded on July 29, 2026. Over the past 46 years, Tony has mediated...
By Antonio Piazza, Stephen Kotev
Practice Swimming Like Whales
August 4, 20264⁴SRI® (4⁴ Structured Reflective Instrument) International Certificate Program Tzofnat Peleg-Baker, PhD with Certified 4⁴SRI® Practitioners PROFESSIONAL EXCELLENCE IS A PRACTICE...
By Tzofnat Peleg-Baker
Turns Out That RPS Coach Really Is Pretty Cool
August 4, 2026When mediate.com recently created this homepage for RPS Coach, it seemed like a good time to reflect on my amazing...
By John Lande
Using RPS Coach to Create a Disability Real Practice System (DRPS)
August 4, 2026This year, I have been celebrating my twentieth bipolar-versary by launching a number of different 20 Years Embracing Bipolar projects...
By Dan Berstein
Optimizing Mediation: About This Book
August 3, 2026by Jim Melamed Co-Founder and 25-year CEO at Mediate.com INTRODUCTION: ABOUT THIS BOOK What exactly is “a book” these days?...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Mediation & Optimization
August 3, 2026Table of Contents Next Mediation & Optimization In any situation in which you are uncertain, consider: "What do I want...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation: Mediation Myth Busters
August 3, 2026Table of Contents Next This “Myth Busters” article was written and issued in 2025 jointly by the American Arbitration Association...
By Jim Melamed
Immersive Mediation Program Trains Tomorrow’s Peacemakers
July 27, 2026Cal State Long Beach students are getting into the thick of other peoples’ problems — and solving them — while...
By Andrew Edwards
Mediation in India: Enforceable Settlements Without Compulsory Compromise
July 27, 2026In a Delhi family court, a marriage of seven years had already collapsed by the time the case reached the...
By Aftab Mohammad
Optimizing Mediation – About the Author
July 26, 2026Next Table of Contents Jim Melamed co-founded Mediate.com in 1996 with John Helie and served as CEO of Mediate.com through June 2020...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation – Acknowledgements
July 25, 2026Next Table of Contents Acknowledgements First off, thanks to my parents. To my dad, now deceased at 93, for his...
By Jim Melamed
Optimizing Mediation – A Fascinating Journey
July 24, 2026Table of Contents Next OVERVIEW OF THE MEDIATION PROCES An Introduction to MediationA Fascinating Journey If we want to make...
By Jim Melamed
Background to Stephen Kotev’s July 29 Interview with Tony Piazza: “Lessons from 5,000 Mediations: Converting Dialectic Into Dialogue”
July 22, 2026- Register for Free Tony Piazza Interview Here - For almost two decades, I’ve been fascinated by the Aikido concept...
By Stephen Kotev, Antonio Piazza
Guidelines for the Submission of Articles to Mediate.com
July 21, 2026Mediate.com welcomes high quality articles on mediation and dispute resolution for publication on our web site. Authors are encouraged to submit...
By Clare Fowler, Jim Melamed, Colin Rule
Advanced Workplace Mediation Training
July 14, 2026with Dr. Clare Fowler of Mediate.com - October 2 and 9 via Zoom The Lodestar Dispute Resolution Center at ASU Law has...
By Clare Fowler
From Observation to Innovation: A Year Inside the AAA–Suffolk Online Dispute Resolution Innovation Clinic
July 14, 2026Introduction In August 2025, eight Suffolk Law School students became the inaugural participants in the AAA–Suffolk Online Dispute Resolution (ODR)...
By Maya Markovich